What is your personal style? Do you even have one? I do but I don't exactly know how to describe it except for 'eclectic'. Developing a style is a fun way to show off your personality to the world. But there is a difference between being trendy and being stylish. Trends come and go. Style lasts and is your personal fashion signature. It's individual and personal and is a statement about you. Clothes have more of an impact than you may realize! Of course if you're a costumer you already know that. We know certain things about characters in movies simply by what they are wearing when they appear on screen! The same applies to every day people and what they are wearing.
There was a time (in the long ago past) when I was a consummate preppy. Yes, me. My staples in college were nice slacks, penny loafers, and turtlenecks with sweaters. I also owned a couple of jumpers and plenty of tartan skirts, kilted and wrap. My favorite stores were LL Bean, J Crew and Land's End. After college graduation I realized my taste was changing and since then I've been on a quest to develop my own personal style. It is always evolving and adapting along with current fashion and style lines, but it comes down to knowing my body and what suits me. There will always be those garments that look like a trash bag on me.
My personal style took a huge leap forward when I attended art school. I was inundated with images and media showing the latest couture. I subscribed to Women's Wear Daily and Vogue. I attended classes taught by professors who only wore Diesel (at least he was consistent!). I started looking for inspiration for my designs every where. It all had an impact. I got edgier - more fashion conscious. My hobby costuming also lended to the mix. I started using costume pieces and shoes in my every day wardrobe. I didn't just save them for use with my costumes. I created looks and mixed up elements from various periods in my life and broke out my boundaries and tried new things. Not all of us have the opportunity to be immersed in the fashion world.
So, how do you go about developing a personal style? The nine steps below will set you on your way to your own fantastic style.
1. Know what style lines suit you.
There is no way, no-how that I can wear un-tailored, deconstructed clothing. Every time I try a garment on like that I hate it. I'm petite and curvy with narrow shoulders. Tailored clothing with some structure, low-rise pants with slightly flare leg, and deep scoop, v-neck or collared tops look best on me. How did I discover all this? I shopped a lot and tried a lot of things on. If something doesn't match the 'rules' for my body type, then I don't try it on. Now that's not say that once in a while I don't still see something I like on the hanger that doesn't fit the rules. I thought all halters looked horrendous on me until recently when I tried on a cocktail dress with a halter neckline. It's where the lines of the halter hit me on my shoulders and neck that makes all the difference in the world. I can wear a halter, just not all of them out there! Figure out your body's rules by going to a variety of stores and trying on everything you like on the hanger.
2. Stick to the rules
Make up rules for yourself. If you try something on and don't love it, don't buy it no matter how good a deal it is. It's not a deal if you don't love it because it will hang in your closet and never get worn. What Not To Wear is the best training for this!! Watch it and learn.
3. Develop your color story.
There will be certain colors that don't look good on you. There will be other colors that people compliment you for wearing. Make a note and purchase clothing in those colors. Expand your color story. Maybe there are some colors you haven't tried. I've got a closet full of jewel toned clothing especially various shades of pink, red and purple. Why? Because they look great on me and I get a lot of compliments when I wear them. I also have a lot of black and blue (who doesn't?) and chocolate brown and have recently been expanding into certain shades of green, yellow and coral especially for summer. If you're not sure of the color with the lights in the store, you can always return the garment once you see it in natural light at home. White washes me out but I still wear it - I just rev up my makeup or make sure the neckline is not close to my face. Cream and ivory are better neutrals for my coloring. Get a copy of Color Me Beautiful and find out what season color you are. I'm a Summer but have brown eyes so I can go outside my color range a bit.
4. Get inspired - watch Style or read Lucky Magazine
Style TV has great shows on current trends and celebrity style. These are meant to inspire you and give you ideas. Don't go out and copy exact looks from celebrities or those shows! I am a huge fan of Lucky because they feature fashion and style for ALL budgets and price ranges. They highlight designers and stores I would have never heard of and include web links, price points and even toll-free telephone numbers for more information. Stickers are included to mark your favorite pages for easy reference later.
5. Shop a Lot! And everywhere.
I love Old Navy for cute tees and great casual pants. The manufacturing is superb for the price point and I don't worry about ruining the clothes. I mostly shop for work clothes here since I work on film location a lot. I have to be comfortable, casual and ready for a very physical work day. Mainstream chains I like include Macy's for basics, Neiman's for evening wear and Anthropologie for their nice cotton tees that are not the norm. Their pants also fit me well but I haven't had much luck with their dresses. They also have fabulous jewelry. I love boutique shopping for my dressier clothing. Price points are a bit higher but if you shop often and get on their mailing list you may get lucky with a fabulous annual sale. Thrift stores and consignment shops can be good for those vintage or one of a kind retro pieces. I usually find accessories in those kinds of stores, but at least one of my girlfriends is always able to put together really cute looks from thrift stores on the cheap.
6. Find a good tailor
Let me tell you a secret about What Not To Wear. All of those clothes the person buys on the show's tab are also custom altered and tailored for them that week during the taping. None of those clothes come straight off the rack looking that awesome for the big reveal at the end! Find a tailor. Use them to hem pants, take in tops and jackets and adjust the clothes to your body. They will fit better and you'll want to wear them more because you'll feel great in them!
7. Wear the appropriate underpinnings
Please, please wear the correct bra and undies with your outfits. Beige bras always look better under light colored tops (unless you're Sara Jessica Parker). You don't need to wear a thong to NOT have panty lines now - there are plenty of fine microfiber seamless fabrics being used. Kohl's has a great selection at reasonable prices and is always having sales. If you're wearing a formal dress for a wedding (especially if you're in the wedding) invest in a long line bra. It creates a smooth silhouette and you'll look great in the photos. I'm still not a fan of letting the edges of the bra show - that is a trend I hope goes away! Also, those pesky bra straps. Either get the clear plastic kind for your tank tops or invest in a strapless bra that is comfortable and wont' slide down. Nothing is more distracting than watching a girl hitch up her bra underneath her clothing all day long.
8. Accentuate with shoes and accessories
This is one of the easiest, least expensive and fun ways to bolster your personal style. Stores like Icing, Claire's and H&M have great selections of accessories for really great prices. I love rings and bangle bracelets. I've been buying BIG - the bigger the better - and pairing with stud earrings. I also love bling and it's not unusual to see me wearing rhinestones in the middle of the day. DSW has a super selection of shoes - I hardly ever get out of there without at least one pair! Check their sale rack in the back. Save your designer shoe buying for your dressier outfits and formal occasions. That's when I check out Betsey Johnson and the shoe departments at Neiman's and Nordstroms.
9. Never stop.
Your taste will continue to change over time. Adapt to it. Get rid of the items you haven't worn in a year by donating to Purple Heart or a thrift store, or if in good enough shape consign them. Continue all the steps above! Watch, read, shop, learn and soon you'll be tripping the style fantastic!